April 30, 2024

Robert the Celebrity Stalker

Robert the Celebrity Stalker

When Robert John Bardo first saw actress Rebecca Schaeffer, he knew that he would do anything to be able to meet her.

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When Robert John Bardo first saw actress Rebecca Schaeffer, he knew that he would do anything to be able to meet her.

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Dispersing in nineteen seventy. Robert John
Bardo was born to an American father and

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a Korean mother, and as the
youngest sibling of seven, his childhood was

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a bit chaotic. Robert's dad was
in the US Air Force, causing that

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large family to move states several times
before finally settling down in Arizona when Robert

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was in his early teens. The
frequent moves weren't the only unstable aspect of

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Robert's childhood. One of his older
siblings abused him and he became suicidal,

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causing him to be removed from his
family and put into foster care. Several

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other members of Robert's family were diagnosed
with mental illness, and eventually Robert was

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diagnosed with bipolar disorder when he was
only fifteen years old. His emotional state

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was so bad that he was institutionalized. He attended high school up until the

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ninth grade, when he decided to
drop out. During this time, Robert's

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life had been taken over by a
deep obsession with a celebrity, Samantha Smith,

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an activist in her early teens who
had become famous after her anti war

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letter to a Soviet ambassador received international
attention. Robert's fascination with thirteen year old

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Samantha quickly snowballed out of control,
and before long he was actively stalking her.

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He even traveled to Maine in the
hopes of meeting her in person when

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she she returned from a trip to
the Soviet Union, but after a run

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in with police, he lost his
nerve and went back home regardless. Robert

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planned on continuing to stalk Samantha,
but then in nineteen eighty five, bar

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Harbor Airlines Flight eighteen oh eight crashed
with Samantha on board, killing her instantly.

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With the object of his obsession suddenly
dead, Robert was left reeling.

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He tried to focus on a couple
of female pop stars instead, but although

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he became briefly obsessed, he never
ended up stalking any of them. Finally,

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in nineteen eighty six, he found
somebody who made him feel the same

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way that Samantha Smith had, Rebecca
Schaeffer, an actress on the popular sitcom

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My Sister Sam. At the age
of sixteen, Robert watched an episode of

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the series, and he was immediately
infatuated with Rebecca. Quote, she came

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into my life at the right moment. She was brilliant, pretty outrageous.

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Her innocence impressed me. She turned
into a goddess for me, an idol.

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Since then I turned into an atheist. I only adored her. From

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that moment onward, Robert started writing
to Rebecca to express his admiration. Although

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she didn't reply, he still felt
like the two of them shared a close

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bond. The next year, Rebecca
actually wrote a reply to one of his

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letters, sending a short note where
she told Robert, your letter was one

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of the nicest I ever got.
Although it was the only time Rebecca ever

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communicated with him, Robert believed that
the note confirmed his feelings were mutual.

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Desperate to communicate with her in some
way, Robert ended up arriving at the

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set where My Sister Sam was being
filmed, and he tried to locate Rebecca.

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He was holding an enormous teddy bear
at a bunch of flowers, which

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he hoped he would be able to
give her as the next step in their

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romantic relationship. Instead, he was
apprehended by the security team, who refused

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to allow him on the set.
A Warner Brothers policy meant that all actors

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and actresses needed to be informed if
a member of the public was making uninvited

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advances for their own safety. However, Rebecca was never told about Robert's arrival

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on set. Because Robert had cooperated
when he was told to leave, and

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he didn't seem threatening or violent,
the security team decided that it wasn't worth

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worrying Rebecca. In the thick of
his obsession with Rebecca, Robert's emotional state

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was deteriorating. From nineteen eighty seven
to early nineteen eighty eight. His neighbors

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expressed that he made them feel unsafe
in their own neighborhood, and he was

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even arrested several times for disorderly conduct
and domestic violence. He might have left

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without a fuss when he was refused
access to the My Sister Sam set,

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but the incident didn't deter him from
trying to meet Rebecca. Instead, he

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hired a detective to find out the
actress's home address, and using motor vehicle

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records, they were able to find
it. During this time, Robert wrote

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a letter to his sister, telling
her quote, I have an obsession with

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the unattainable, and I have to
eliminate what I cannot attain. He also

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decided to buy a gun, and
when he was denied due to his mental

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illness, he got his brother to
buy one for him instead. On the

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eighteenth of July nineteen eighty nine,
Robert arrived at Rebecca Schaeffer's home with his

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gun. A few years ago,
he might have met her and expressed his

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love and admiration for her, but
now he was no longer viewing her in

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an affectionate light. He had been
infuriated to see that she filmed an intimate

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scene in one of her recent films, causing him to describe her as just

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another Hollywood whore who had lost the
sense of innocence that appealed to him.

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In his eyes, she had betrayed
him. Robert rang the doorbell of Rebecca's

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apartment, told her his name,
and showed her the note she written him

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in response to one of his letters. Rebecca didn't seem alarmed by Robert's presence.

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Instead, she was friendly, shaking
his hand before telling him that she

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had an appointment that she needed to
get ready for. After visiting a nearby

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diner and buying himself breakfast, Robert
decided to visit Rebecca's apartment a second time

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to give her a CD that he'd
bought her. He rang the doorbell,

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and once again Rebecca answered it herself. This time she wasn't as friendly,

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telling Robert to hurry up. Ultimately, Rebecca had no time to react.

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Robert pulled out a shotgun, fatally
shooting her, and then fled the scene.

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He had been carrying a copy of
the book The Catcher and the Rye

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with him throughout the entire ordeal,
and for some reason he decided to throw

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it onto the roof of a nearby
building when he ran away from the apartment.

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He was arrested for the murder after
being found in a dazed state,

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stumbling through busy streets and narrowly avoiding
being hit by cars. At Robert's trial,

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he said that the decision to murder
Rebecca had been influenced by a song

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Exit by the band U two,
which had lyrics that were written to portray

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the thoughts of a murderer. The
song was played for the jury, and

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Robert sat in the courtroom mouthing the
words. Another media influence brought up at

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the trial was the fact that Robert
had been holding a paperback of The Catcher

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and the Rye during the crime.
The prosecution pointed out that this detail was

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incredibly similar to another crime, when
Mark David Chapman fatally shot John Lennon,

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he had been carrying a copy of
the same book. Despite the glaring similarity,

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Robert insisted that the choice of the
book was nothing but a coincidence.

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Later on, Mark David Chapman claimed
that Robert had actually written to him in

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prison before killing Rebecca, asking him
questions about what it was like to be

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in prison. The defense attorneys agreed
that Robert had killed Rebecca, but argued

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that he should have a lighter sentence
due to his mental illness. Psychiatrist and

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criminologist Parke Deets testified about his assessment
of Robert, telling the jury that Robert

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was diagnosed with schizophrenia, which had
caused him to commit the crime despite his

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significant history with mental illness. The
jury found Robert guilty of murder in the

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first degree. He received a life
sentence without parole. The crime caused intense

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public scrutiny of the state Department of
Motor Vehicles because many people were concerned that

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Robert had been so easily able to
obtain Rebecca's home address through her DMV records.

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This resulted in the Driver's Privacy Protection
Act being passed by Congress forbidding the

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state departments from sharing home addresses.
Rebecca's murder also resulted in the United States

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first laws aimed at preventing stalking.
In two thousand and seven, Robert was

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walking from his cell to get breakfast
when he was attacked by another inmate who

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had been convicted of set second degree
murder. He was stabbed a total of

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eleven times with two different shives,
but after a brief treatment at the UC

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Davis Medical Center, he made a
full recovery. Eventually, Robert was moved

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from Mule Creek State Prisons maximum security
units to a medium security unit at Avana

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State Prison, where he will likely
remain for the rest of his life.

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That's ten minute murder for today,
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Joe, that's my name. I'm
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the time to listen. And I
know what you're thinking. Joe saw Baby

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Reindeer on Netflix, so of course
he's going to do an episode about stalking.

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And that's partial that's partially true.
I did not come up with this

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topic. Someone like one of you
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Joe, have you heard of this
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one of your episodes. I put
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get to and then I saw baby
Reindeer, and I'm just like, oh,

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this reminds me a little bit of
the Rebecca Schaeffer story. So I

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went back and found that and then
boom, here we are today. It's

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not exactly the same, obviously,
because the outcomes are very different, but

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they are both about stalking, and
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