May 30, 2023

The Swipe of Death

The Swipe of Death

There are thousands of couples that will tell you they met the love of their life on dating apps... or maybe the love of their night. However, there are some stories where it went as wrong as it could possibly go. In December, 2018, Grace Millane...

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There are thousands of couples that will tell you they met the love of their life on dating apps... or maybe the love of their night. However, there are some stories where it went as wrong as it could possibly go. In December, 2018, Grace Millane swiped right on a man named Jesse. After a date that started off akward, it ended with her walking with him up to his hotel room. She never walked out - but when her date left, he was wheeling a very large, very heavy suitcase.


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Twenty two year old Grace Mullane had
just graduated from the University of Lincoln in

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England, and she decided she wanted
to see more of the world and went

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on a gap year. After traveling
to South America for a month and a

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half, she flew to New Zealand, where she planned on staying for two

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weeks. On the first of December, which was the day before her birthday,

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Grace was in Auckland, New Zealand, getting ready to go on a

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date with a man that she'd been
talking to on Tinder, twenty six year

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old Jesse Kimpson. She got dressed
in white shoes and a black dress,

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carrying a small bag with her,
and then went to go meet Jesse at

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a local bar. It was their
very first date, but Jesse greeted Grace

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by pulling her into an awkward hug, which Grace halfheartedly returned with the one

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arm hug. Jesse paid for Grace's
drinks and the two of them went to

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several more bars, drinking margharita's and
shants of tequila. They seemed to be

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getting along pretty well, and the
more they talked, the more Grace relaxed.

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Then Grace got up and went to
the bathroom. As soon as she

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was out of sight, Jesse grabbed
her back and searched through its contents.

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Meanwhile, Grace texted one of her
friends from back home, telling her that

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she was on a Tinder date which
was going very well. And Grace's final

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message to her friend she said,
quote, He's coming to London next year.

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I click with him so well.
I'll let you know what happens tomorrow.

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At nine forty one that evening,
Grace and her Tender dates were once

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again caught on CCTV taking an elevator
up to Jesse's room in the City Life

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Hotel. They were in the elevator
for just moments and then Jesse got out

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first, followed by Grace. The
next day, CCTV caught Jesse leaving his

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hotel room alone. There was no
sign of Grace. He left a hotel

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early in the morning and returned after
purchasing a large suit case and cleaning supplies,

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which he took up to his room. Shortly afterwards, he opened Tender

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again sent a message to a different
girl asking to meet up. He left

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that suit case and cleaning supplies in
the hotel and went off to meet his

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tender date. According to the woman
that Jesse met that evening, their date

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did not go well. Actually,
he made her extremely uncomfortable, telling her

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about how it was supposedly impossible for
police dogs to sniff out the scent of

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a human body as long as it
was buried at least four feet underground.

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He mentioned that he had a lot
of friends that were police officers and that

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they told him about bodies being buried
in the nearby way to Carry ranges and

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I'm confident I'm saying that wrong,
but Jess know that it's in New Zealand.

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It's a mountain range. It's gorgeous
if you've seen pictures of it,

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and it's very heavily forested. Jesse
also told his tender date a story about

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an acquaintance that I'm using air quotes
on that an acquaintance of his who had

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accidentally killed a woman by strangling her
to death after having two rough sex.

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He told this date quote, it's
crazy how guys can make one wrong move

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and then go to jail for the
rest of their lives. When the date

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came to an end, Jesse's date
realized that they had parked their cars in

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the same parking lot, and she
had this gut feeling that she should not

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reveal this information, so she decided
to lie to him and say that she

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left her car in the opposite direction. As she walked away. She felt

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relieved because something about Jesse didn't feel
quite right. He messaged her later that

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night, asking her on a second
date. She declined. Later, Jesse

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rented a carpet cleaning machine from a
local store, which he took up to

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his hotel room, as well as
one of the large trolleys that carries the

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suit cases when they're too heavy to
carry by hand. He loaded his new

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suit case, which was now very
heavy, and the rest of his bags

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onto the trolley, then wheeled them
out to the red Toyota that he had

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rented. He parked the car in
a parking lot overnight, with the suit

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case still inside. The next morning, Jesse drove out of the city center,

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purchasing a new shovel on his way. He was headed to the way

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to carry ranges, the same place
he had mentioned on this date the previous

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evening when he was talking about burying
human remains. On December seconds, Grace's

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friends and family from back home all
wished her a happy birthday, but there

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was no reply. After three days
of radio silence from Grace, her worried

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parents reported their daughter as missing.
Initially, New Zealand police believed that Grace

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had just been busy with her travels
and didn't believe that there was any evidence

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of foul play, but as time
went on, it became clear that something

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was terribly wrong. During their investigation
into Grace's disappearance, they'd checked her social

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media and noticed that somebody had left
a comment on one of her Facebook photos

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after her disappearance, calling her beautiful
and very radiant. That account belonged to

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a man named Jesse Kimpson, and
with one Facebook comment, he was officially

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a person of interest. On December
sixth, two police officers located Jesse in

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a food court and approached him to
ask questions. Jesse told them that he

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had last seen Grace on December first, after their date, but they'd gone

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their separate ways. He gave the
detectives a fake address and didn't mention City

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Life Hotel where Grace had last been
seen. However, they were still suspicious

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and brought him to the Auckland Police
station. There, Jesse continued to maintain

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his innocence, but by now police
knew something that Jesse had not shared with

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them, the suit case. Jesse
insisted that he hadn't used the suit case

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for anything, but couldn't provide a
clear answer as to why he purchased it.

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Investigators descended on Jesse's apartment at CityLife
Hotel. Despite all those cleaning supplies

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he'd purchased, luminol testing revealed bloodstains
next to the bed. Then magically,

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Jesse's story changed. He finally admitted
to police that he'd taken Grace back to

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his hotel room for the purpose of
having sex. Quote. We started having

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sex. It was just normal.
It was very placid. Then she asked

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me if we could get into bondage. He told investigators that he was not

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experienced with BDSM, but when Grace
asked him to choke her, he agreed.

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Apparently, he thought that nothing had
gone wrong during the encounter until he

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woke up the next morning and found
Grace still in the same position with blood

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running out of her nose. She
was dead. Understandably, investigators found it

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very hard to believe that Jesse had
somehow accidentally strangled Grace to death during sex

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and not realized that she was no
longer alive until the next morning. Analysis

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of Jesse's cell phone activity provided a
different version of events. Hours after returning

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to his hotel room with Grace,
he made a series of Google searches about

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how to dispose of a body.
Then he viewed violent pornography took several photos

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of Grace for his own gratification.
At this stage, Grace was already dead.

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He didn't call an ambulance or tried
to resuscitate her. It seemed as

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if he had been sexually aroused by
her death, and possibly he had killed

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her for his own sexual gratification.
Then he bought the suitcase, stuffed Grace's

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body inside, and buried it in
the forest. The story he'd told to

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his second tender date about a friend
who had accidentally choked a woman to death

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seemed to be a practice run for
the story that he would eventually tell the

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police. He made a series of
Google searches about Grace over the next few

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days, seeing if she had been
reported missing. Strangely, he also made

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a search if New Zealand had any
native flesh eating birds, especially vultures.

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Despite Jesse's belief that a body buried
four feet underground, was impossible to discover.

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Grace's remains were found buried in the
ranges on the ninth of December twenty

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eighteen. The autopsy confirmed at least
part of Jesse's story Grace had been strangled

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to death. Despite Jesse's defense team
arguing that Grace's death had been an accidental

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consequence of rough sex, the jury
found him guilty of her murder, and

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he was sentenced to spend life in
prison. During the trial, multiple women

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who had been on tender dates with
Jesse came forward to testify, including the

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woman who unknowingly went on a date
with him while Grace's body was still in

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his room. That woman's decision to
lie to Jesse about where she had parked

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her card that night might have been
the only thing to save her from meeting

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the same fate as Grace Mulane.
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